We often prioritize logical thinking (head) over emotions (heart), but when it comes to trusting our sixth sense, it’s about valuing our intuitive feelings. The sixth sense is like a hidden feeling that helps us sense things beyond our regular senses. It’s like a hunch or a whisper of insight that can provide valuable guidance, especially in complex or unclear circumstances. Marriage counselor and psychologist Shivani Misri Sadhoo talks about those moments when you should listen to your ‘sixth sense’.
What are those moments for which you need to listen to your sixth sense?
Shivani, says though there could be numerous things that you need to pay attention to, the following things are the ones you always need to check with. They are:
Know the Red Flags
You’ve been seeing someone for a while, and things seem great on the surface. But then, there’s that one time when they cancel plans last minute, and your gut does a little flip-flop. Maybe it’s nothing, or maybe your sixth sense is trying to tell you something. It could be a misalignment of values or a sense of unease. Don’t ignore it; instead, use it as a signal to dig a little deeper and have an honest conversation.
Many times we have to make tough choices. Let’s say you and your partner are considering moving in together or even discussing long-term commitments. While logic can give you pros and cons, your sixth sense can add an extra layer of insight. If you find yourself feeling excited and calm about the idea, it could be a sign that you’re on the right track. Conversely, if a decision triggers anxiety or discomfort, it might be worth exploring those feelings before proceeding.
Suppose you meet someone at a friend’s party, and as you chat, there’s an inexplicable feeling that you’ve known them for ages. Your sixth sense might be whispering, “This could be someone special.” It’s not about falling head over heels at first sight, but rather recognizing a genuine connection that feels right from the get-go.
Ever spent time with someone, and even though they’re saying all the right things, something just doesn’t add up? Your sixth sense might be nudging you to pay attention to their vibes and energy. Maybe you can’t pinpoint it, but you sense an inconsistency between their words and their aura. Trust that feeling – it might save you from walking down a path that doesn’t align with your values.
When Conflict Arises
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. Now, suppose you’re having a disagreement with your partner, and amidst the heated discussion, your sixth sense chimes in. It might encourage you to take a step back, breathe, and really listen. Your intuition understands that sometimes, silence speaks louder than words. It can help you find the right moment to express your thoughts and feelings, fostering better understanding and resolution.
A Second Date
Do you really want to go on a second date with the same person you met last time? Do you feel some sort of a connection with the person or do you think it is a bad idea? Whatever it be, trust your sixth sense and listen to your heart.
Intuition often picks up on subtle non-verbal cues, such as body language, tone of voice, and facial expressions. If you’re sensing something is off based on these cues, it’s worth considering your sixth sense. Like when your partner rolls their eyes during a serious talk – your gut feels something’s off even if they don’t say it.
It’s not about ignoring logic or disregarding communication; it’s about recognizing the power of your intuition. Trust it, respect it, and let it enrich your relationship experiences. Until next time, keep embracing those intuitive nudges and building beautiful connections!
Shivani Misri Sadhoo is an internationally recommended relationship Counsellor by world’s biggest and most trusted study and research-based foundation for couples therapy – Gottman Institute. She is trained on specialised key relationship counselling Skills from AIIMS, VIMHANS and various other reputed institutions. Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo, is also Certified for Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.
Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo is also a Certified Neuro Linguistic Practitioner with specialised training and experience in the field of affairs/betrayals, trust issues, difficulty communicating, conflicting values, bereavement, grief and loss (affairs, separation, divorce, childhood) and emotional health issue (anxiety, social anxiety, fear, depression, low mood).
Currently, Shivani Misri Sadhoo is one of the top counsellors with the HIGHEST Success Rate with over 17,000 happy couples and individuals (based in India and abroad), who has benefited from her therapy. Psychologist and Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo not only practice independently from her clinic in Greater Kailash, Delhi, India but also listed on the panel of eminent hospitals like IBS Hospital – Institute of Brain & Spine, Express Clinic, Fortis (formerly) based in Delhi.