A healthy relationship should never have continuous fights, disagreements, arguments, hurt, and pain. It is a clear indication that something is wrong with the relationship. Shivani Sadhoo says, certain odd conducts like excessive yelling, dishonestly, emotional abuse, are clear telltale signs that your partner is not the one you are supposed to be with.
And these odd behavioral patterns can be known as ‘deal-breakers’ in your relationship.
India’s top marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares some deal-breakers that you should never allow to happen in a relationship.
Emotional abuse
You must never have to face emotional abuse in your relationship no matter how much you love your significant one or vice versa. A relationship is always about accepting each other’s flaws, but not tolerating extreme disrespect and emotional abuse.
Forced to compromise every time
If your significant other always change plans at the last moment or always asks you to adjust as per his time and convenience, then it is a clear indication that your partner does not truly value you. You must not be the one who has to change their schedule and time for the sake of your partner.
Keeps the relationship secret
Why is your partner so keen on keeping things about you a secret? If your partner does not tell their family about you, even if things have become serious, then there might be a grave concern. You should not be treated like some kind of secret.
Fighting or arguing in a derogatory manner
If your special one fights ugly, unruly even at the smallest of matters, then consider it to be a big deal-breaker. Yelling extravagantly or saying immensely hurtful or smallest of things is not acceptable. But if your partner attempts to hurt you by throwing tantrums or even resorting to physical violence, then leave at the earliest.
Inflated ego, self-centric
It is almost impossible to stay with someone for long who has a big ego and is quite self-centric. These negative qualities can be a lot to handle when an individual cannot keep them in control. It is alright to be a little selfish but if your partner is being over-the-line with his actions in the most atrocious manner, then it could be time to reconsider your relationship.
If you see such deal-breakers within your relationship, then analyze your relationship and make the correct decision, even if it says to leave your partner whom you love.
Your Therapist Is Now Just Skype/Video Call Away
During the current challenging time, it’s common to experience anxiety, depression, sleeplessness, and relationship challenges at home. While you are under lockdown and maintaining social distancing norms to help the country to control the pandemic’s spread, your very own counsellor Shivani is now just a call and Skype video call away from you.
However, in this age of coronavirus, we hope to offer our therapeutic help. Change is difficult for all of us and changing the way you meet with your therapist is no exception. But try it before you disregard this option. This is a challenging moment in time, and fears and anxieties are running high.
You may find, telepsychology isn’t a second-rate option. Instead, it’s an effective and efficient upgrade to a valuable service!
Feel free to call Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo at +91-8860875040 for telephonic or video support and to book an online counselling session to address any relationship issues, emotional and psychological challenges.
Shivani Misri Sadhoo is an internationally recommended relationship Counsellor by world’s biggest and most trusted study and research-based foundation for couples therapy – Gottman Institute. She is trained on specialised key relationship counselling Skills from AIIMS, VIMHANS and various other reputed institutions. Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo, is also Certified for Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.
Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo is also a Certified Neuro Linguistic Practitioner with specialised training and experience in the field of affairs/betrayals, trust issues, difficulty communicating, conflicting values, bereavement, grief and loss (affairs, separation, divorce, childhood) and emotional health issue (anxiety, social anxiety, fear, depression, low mood).
Currently, Shivani Misri Sadhoo is one of the top counsellors with the HIGHEST Success Rate with over 17,000 happy couples and individuals (based in India and abroad), who has benefited from her therapy. Psychologist and Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo not only practice independently from her clinic in Greater Kailash, Delhi, India but also listed on the panel of eminent hospitals like IBS Hospital – Institute of Brain & Spine, Express Clinic, Fortis (formerly) based in Delhi.
